Parental Alienation is Spiritual Child Abuse.

I know many of you may think that Parental Alienation does not exist, but I am here to tell you as someone who has lived through it, and still dealing with it in my life today, it most certainly does.

I have been alienated from one parent during my childhood, and that same person has now used the corrupt courts of Family Injustice to Legally Kidnap my children for the last 7 years. I will also be sharing contact information for the Non Profit Organization I started to help families.

I am going to share in this post how I view Parental Alienation as a form of Spiritual Child Abuse.

What Is Parental Alienation?


Parental Alienation is when any person that has influence or control over a child uses actions and words to cause a child to disrespect a parent with the main goal being a total destruction of the parent/child bond. Often times the child is taught to hate one or both parents. An alienator that tells lies about abuse and then has the child lie about the abuse teaches the child that it is O.K. to lie about someone you don’t like.

When an alienator stops a child from seeing, talking to, or loving a parent or parents they in effect steal the child from the parent. An alienator when forced to allow contact with a child will often encourage the child to make some display of loyalty to the alienator before he/she can go on a visit or have contact. Some of the most common displays are:

Refusal to have the contact with a parent.

Calling a parent by his or her first name.

Tantrums.

Destruction of property.

Physically attacking a parent or other family member during the contact.

Physically harming themselves during contact.

Running away.
Teaching Disobedience of God’s Law to a Child
What an alienator teaches a child is to hate one or both parents. The ways in which the alienator accomplishes this is devastating and against God’s Law. By teaching a child to disrespect his/her parent by word or deed an alienator teaches a child to dishonor his or her parent. Exodus 20 v 12 clearly states that we are to honor our mother and father. No where does it state that it’s ok to make a child chose between them.

An alienator is jealous of a child’s bond to a parent and does whatever he/she can do to destroy it. This teaches a child that it is O.K. to do what ever you can to take something that belongs to another if you want it bad enough, but Exodus 20 v 14-17 clearly states that lying, stealing, and wanting what is not yours is wrong.

This behavior also places an alienator’s desires above God and His Law. God was very clear about how he feels about playing second fiddle to anyone or anything else. Exodus 20 v 3-5.

Teaching a child to hate and refusing to allow a bond between parent and child is against God’s Laws and causes harm against the community. Romans 13 v 7-10

Render therefore to all their dues: tribute to whom tribute is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honour to whom honour. Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law. For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness, Thou shalt not covet; and if there be any other commandment, it is briefly comprehended in this saying, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.


It is selfish and vain conceit. Most alienators who practice these sort of parenting techniques are found to have many behaviors similar to those found within behaviors described by many therapists of Narcissistic personality disorder


See the following:

Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition in which there is an inflated sense of self-importance and an extreme preoccupation with one's self.

Symptoms

A person with narcissistic personality disorder:

• Reacts to criticism with rage, shame, or humiliation
• Takes advantage of other people to achieve his or her own goals
• Has feelings of self-importance
• Exaggerates achievements and talents
• Is preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, beauty, intelligence, or ideal love
• Has unreasonable expectations of favorable treatment
• Requires constant attention and admiration
• Disregards the feelings of others, lacks empathy
• Has obsessive self-interest
• Pursues mainly selfish goals

In the alienation of a child there is help. You may be dealing with someone who has many or most of the behavior listed above. This may explain why they do what they do, however, it DOES NOT make it right. 

If you find that you or a loved one are dealing with parental alienation, Please reach out for help. We network with several trustworthy organizations that truly only want to help, not in it for fame or glory.
Please contact us. We are a support network for
Families that have been hurt by alienation. We
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As always, you have my prayers.

Love in Christ always,

Akuas Keiki